A real ENTJ does not say stuff like, “hahaha as you know I’m an ENTJ, and ENTJs are like this haha lol I can’t help be bossy and goal oriented – please accept me.”
This behaviour is degrading and a waste of time. Some of Introverted MBTI really personified ENTJ but we already know it's fake.
ENTJs existence is outside of themselves. They are carriers of information they have acquired. [FACTS] Their view of the world does not go through the same filter of emotion, values and biases yours does. [Yes].
Here is why I think ENTJs differ from ESTJs:
I like 1 on 1 interactions. Do not care for group settings.
[YES!! intimacy is the key, and I will be able to influence people in better quality].
Usually prefer to be alone. [I have countless books to read and thoughts to write].
I despise texting people.
[It depends on your first impression typing].
I do not want to hear gossip. [YES! too much time wasted].
Only speak when it is purposeful and impactful [SEMUA PERKATAAN, PERBUATAN, SIKAP, PERILAKU, ITU DI-AUDIT/HISAB OLEH ALLAH. BE MINDFUL ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS AND THE CONSEQUENCES!!!!]
Very open to constructive criticism and will offer you my gratitude [if you can offer constructive criticism BY DATA, not a fling or impulsive feeling, I'll give you plentiful rewards, whatever material or immaterial].
Excellent impulse control [I can quit music, series, game, haram relationship, PMO altogether cold turkey biidznillah]
I cannot remember the last time I was legitimately angry or raised my voice at someone [yes, because I'm soft-spoken but I am good at words. Mendidik tidak perlu amarah, tidak perlu urat. Just show the exemplary attitudes].
I somewhat care about individual sports like weightlifting/MMA and can watch sports highlights – cannot bare to watch an entire game – let alone regularly. [YES. I like MMA and for hobby, I like calisthenics and muay Thai].
Being alone with my mind thinking about my thoughts is exhilarating and rewarding [YES!!! I have countless topic to dive in and research].
It doesn’t really matter if the group does not like me [lone wolf anyway, still have Allah and family Alhamdulillah].
Research and studying is pertinent to my identity [it's a life long journey and I won't divorce with books, paper and pens].
I’m focused on the betterment of society – I audit humanity [couldn't agree more].
I am extremely critical and challenge ideas – not the carriers of the message [qaala wa qaala—katanya katanya, pseudosciences, ngga berlaku untukku. Status quo akan selalu aku uji dimanapun berada, critical thinking, know myself, my limitations, my shortcomings, and also my own cognitive biases]
I appreciate a wide variety of different acquaintances that are nothing like me [I know a lot of people with different background, social status, but I am very picky with my inner circle].
I don’t feel much when I accomplish something or get compliments [it's just... biasa aja kali, itu juga Allah yang bantu. Kalau gagal, ngga sedih² amat, kalau berhasil ngga euforia berlebihan. Semua berkat Allah yang memampukan dan memudahkanku].
Style, fashion and taste doesn’t come easily to me. It is something that is learnt through acquiring information [ngga ikut ikutan, malahan aku trendsetter karena aku percaya dengan pilihan dan seleraku. Anyway, I'm strict to the basic black veiled outdoor and cottage core indoor].
Postulating, conceptualizing and speculating abstract ideas is my idea of fun [my brain 24/7]
I do not care about being given credit for doing something
[I don't seek validation in this dunya, because I only need Allah to recognize myself, my effort, and my dedications. Semua aku persembahkan, perjuangkan untuk menjadi hamba-Nya versi terbaik setiap harinya eventhough aku nangis sampai bengkak, berdarah, sakit, takut, aku berusaha semaksimal mungkin].
Social conventions – what I should and should not do in the eyes of society does not naturally exist to me, however I have a cognitive understanding of these [seperti values sebelumnya, semua opini, konsensus, harus diteliti dan diselidiki betul-betul].
I couldn’t live a normal life if I tried [what normal anyway? Allah gave me the helicopter vision and I'll eventually get it].
I have a integral need to be self sufficient [bismillah Allah mampukan].
I appreciate the arts [recently got into photo curations].
My mind is testing, measures and forecasting all day long [memikirkan kuasa dan ciptaan Allah setiap saatnya, setiap keajaiban dan nikmat yang diberikan].
Rarely thinking about people or things [not really my cup of tea. Orang dan barang ngga dibawa mati, yang transcend ke Allah itu hati, jiwa, ruhiyah kita bukan daging/flesh kita].
Status and popularity do not matter to me, even close to the extent that you think it does
[Doa yang aku pinta ke Allah, jadikan aku bertakwa, tersembunyi, dan kaya (free of all wants from people)].
This is an idea people get stuck on. It defies everything they think they know about mbti and human psychology. When you have basic understanding – your abilities to apply your understanding in the real world- are also relatively basic. (If it seems like someone is doing x, than it must be x! Go me I’m so smart). [self-explanatory].
I am not a ‘people person’, unless I want to be. [I do mind my own business. Makanya kenapa pas aku kenal ajaran Islam, aku bener bener jadi mikirin diri sendiri terus in a responsible way. Audit diri sendiri terus. Bagaimana harusnya aku bersikap, berpikir, bertindak sebagai manusia].
My relationship with words is different – linguistics is important to me [it's just sexy to have an intellectual discussion with proper tone, grammar, words, and insightful conversations].
Predicting long term outcomes is my default. Conducting run tests in my brain is endless. [self-explanatory].
I am pretty chill and do not care about what other people think about X and do with their time. If I disagree with someone, its like – hmm that’s exactly what I expected them to think and say – par for course. [Udah ketakar dia bakal bilang apa, bersikap apa. Jarang kaget sih aku sama sikap yang diperlihatkan oleh orang lain. Bukannya aku sotoy, tapi emang i read people like book and it's my job].
Encourage independent thought and new ideas. [be independent, rely on your strength that given by Allah. Jangan mudah menyerah. Jangan berhutang. Jangan minta ke manusia. Minta sama Allah].
Be yourself, just do the right thing. [Self-explanatory].
Relationships are character/virtue based. [I respect a lot for in-depth characters and nondisposable values. Basically investasi leher ke atas, ngga bisa diimitasi. Kelas ngga bisa dicontek, mahal nggabisa ditiru].
Care more about the result, opposed to the process [agak kurang sabar sebenarnya, tapi yah kita belajar sama-sama dalam berproses ini].
Distaste of incompetence is not personal. I’m not acting you as an individual, just I know you are capable of doing better. You hold yourself to such a low standard snd it’s severely impacting your quality of life. [kritik internal aku kepada orang-orang past people. You can do better actually. But kembali lagi kepada firman Allah, Allah mengubah keadaan/kondisi suatu kaum kalau mereka mengubah kondisi diri sendiri terlebih dahulu].