poin dimana org yg pacaran, fwb, hts, extramarital affairs, nggapaham:
The solemnity of marriage, the fact that it involves so many people’s approval and attention, means that he is forced to look at her and see her not just as a body, but as someone’s daughter, someone’s sister, someone’s niece.
She is not detached from her society and background. She is a great deal greater than her body and her personality. And that means he is forced to respect her as a person. He is beholden to dozens of other people who will all have something to say about it if he mistreats her.
Through the constant interactions with her family, he is reminded over and over again that she is more than just a body, that she is a person with an honored social status.