not doing witchcraft but i have a layered armor for protection from my Creator only.
When we are young and desirous of love, we wish to avoid the difficulties society throws before us when it comes to love and romance. We wish to find a lover and go live in the woods together without anyone interfering with our lives.
The young man will treat his lover like a queen, she will treat him like a king, and everything will be happy ever after. But those who are naive enough to actually go through with such a plan almost invariably end up suffering the greatest misery. All that it takes is a month or two for the honeymoon period of the relationship to be over. When it is over, the two start to take each other more and more for granted.
Neither of them sees the other in a socially integrated way; he is no longer a king but a not-too-attractive male with all kinds of annoying habits and shortcomings. She is no longer a queen but a demanding or needy female with an anxiety problem. Neither of them is capable of being the other’s “everything”.
They start to miss their previous, socially integrated lives that so effortlessly granted them so much respect and honor, and they wish to get that back. They will enviously look at those who “married right” and who continue to get the love and respect of their families, while they themselves are outcasts who have the tiresome task of being everything for each other.
apa yang dimakan sama penulis ini untuk dapat wisdom sekeren ini?
One could say that we can have such relationships without involving our families; we do not need our families to force us to be nice and considerate toward our spouses. But the reality is that human nature always “reverts to the mean”. At the beginning of a romantic relationship we can treat the other person with the greatest consideration. But once the honeymoon is over, the couple start to take each other more and more for granted and start to do less and less for each other. This is something that has been experienced by most people, who may have at first thought they would be the exception to the rule. The point of socially integrating a romantic relationship into society is to extend the honeymoon-level of consideration to the period that comes after the honeymoon. That is the magic that social integration achieves and that is almost impossible to achieve without it.
poin dimana org yg pacaran, fwb, hts, extramarital affairs, nggapaham:
The solemnity of marriage, the fact that it involves so many people’s approval and attention, means that he is forced to look at her and see her not just as a body, but as someone’s daughter, someone’s sister, someone’s niece.
She is not detached from her society and background. She is a great deal greater than her body and her personality. And that means he is forced to respect her as a person. He is beholden to dozens of other people who will all have something to say about it if he mistreats her.
Through the constant interactions with her family, he is reminded over and over again that she is more than just a body, that she is a person with an honored social status.
udahan mainmainnyaa put, 21st thing that will circulate more normal is that there are many digital grave. alias semuanya udah pada dipanggil dan menghadap Allah😭
kok tbtb semua org pinter politik ya
You are no smaller nor larger than that man/woman you want in your life, hon. That car you want, or the career that you want, or the physical body that you want – wants you. Because without you, it only exists in your imaginal realm.
You give it physical life. I think that makes you pretty cool. And that’s the mindset.
people who invested in anime culture either have their shit together and have a crack code for life (too good, honestly) or they are dipshit and mamaboy who cant clean their selves.
Whoever wants the Hereafter to grow in their heart, and the world to become small in their eyes, and their heart to be attached to their Lord, let them frequently read and reflect on the Quran.
By Allah, they will see wondrous things that were hidden from them due to their turning away from it. So, I advise you with the Quran; do not let your days and lives pass while you are heedless of it, for it is the path to salvation, success, and prosperity in this world and the Hereafter.
bro literally my reactive jilid mouth telling me “ih med student cowo masa pakai cincin batu gitu si. knp ga emas aja” I FORGOT LITERALLY cowo gaboleh pakai emas di islam💀💀💀
When you’re in a room full of crazies, you’re the crazy one. If 3 people are in the room. 2 crazies are in agreement you’re the crazy in the room not them. Remove yourself.