Men raised by single mothers tended to use more 'female' tactics when attacking me and vice versa with women who used more 'male' tactics having picked up more behaviour from their dads/brothers as a child. Both men and women who are insecure and don't think they can compete on merit alone seem to resort to 'female' tactics to try to manipulate the outcome in their favour.
I would much rather have everyone use 'male' tactics, as I can understand the rules of conduct a lot more easily.
SPEAK VOLUMES ABOUT ALL THE PAST PEOPLE THAT F-D ME UP AT SOME POINT. for all the heartbreak and stuff I've healed, I would rather to: i'll stick to my learned behavior from my dad and all the capable man i know.