masukkan ke perjanjian pranikah: jika kamu jajan dengan sepengatahuan aku atau tidak, sebelum berhubungan, aku akan meminta kejujuran kamu dan medical checkup. jika ada STD light-mild, tunda berhubungan. jika ada STD heavy-uncurable, aku minta cerai. September 11, 2024 edit delete change to anonymous
one thing yang aku baru sadari: people that has Allah's wrath on them, they are taking pride on how life's struggle doing on them, how sick are they (mentally/physically). basically, they are all glorifying the difficulties of life, not stacking achievements/useful skills that really make impactful influence in society. just my 2 cents. September 10, 2024 edit delete change to anonymous
terms & conditions about marriage: first in 31 august, 2024. next: today. september, 10. sample questions for a prospective spouse!!
1) what are your short and long-term goals and aspirations in life? 2) how do you envision a fulfilling and happy relationship? 3) what are some of the values and principles that guide your life? 4) can you tell me about a significant life experience— that has shaped who you are today? 5) how you handle conflict, and how you communicate in relationship? 6) what are some of the qualities or characteristics you value in a partner? 7) how do you maintain a work-life balance and prioritize your personal well-being? 8) what role does family play in your life, and what kind of relationship do you hope to have with your future in-laws? 9) what are your thoughts on personal growth and self-improvement? 10) how do you envision supporting each other's dreams and ambitions within a partnership?
11) what are your core beliefs and values? 12) what are your professional plans over the next 5-10 years? 13) what kind of person are you with money? spender or saver? 14) how importrant is a legacy to you? 15) how do you feel about the responsibility of being a model man for your kids and others? 16) how is your temperament? do you know it? how do you think it will/does influence you? 17) what is your attachment style? 18) how is communication done when you are unsatisfied/unhappy? 19) what would you change in your life and character? 20) how is your relationship with your family/siblings and how important is it to you?
21) how would your relationship with your parents benefit and affect our relationship? 22) what does your ideal family look like? what is your vision of marriage? what are your marital fantasies? 23) who inspires you? khadijah. 24) what is your financial expectation of your wife? 25) name three things you'd like to have in common with your partner? 26) what are your bad habits, if you have any? suka mendiamkan pasangan, sibuk sendiri, sampai diajak ngomong dan dihibur dulu. 27) is providing for the home a sole or shared responsibility? 28) would you allow your wife to work? 29) who are yorur friends? who you follow on instagram/social media apps? 30) what are the things that you can't condone from your spouse and may/would lead to immediate request for the termination of the marriage contract? financial infidelity (debt/investasi bodong dengan hutang ratusan juta), romantic infidelity that leads to STD, domestic violences both verbal and physical, melanggar perjanjian pranikah. September 10, 2024 edit delete change to anonymous
Health, wealth, relationships, and happiness are markets that hold the unconscious, subconscious, or conscious goals of every human being.
Business is about solving survival and status problems.
Make your goals conscious, solve your own problems, and distribute your lessons.
dua hal yang aku pelajari, satu hal yang aku sums up til today.
#1 semua orang butuh makan, maka makanan ngga ada matinya. #2 semua orang masih pakai baju, maka selama itu pula rezeki akan selalu ada. #3 setiap orang berhubungan dengan orang lain, selama itu pula akan ada bisnis untuk menjadi konsultan. tapi yang ini, butuh expertise panjang, jatuh bangun.