Listen to the wisdom of our elders. She is 100 % correct. That's probably why she's still so sharp. She doesn't want to stay in the past, she wants to keep moving ahead with the times. There's a reason why the past is the past and meant to stay in the past. Thanks for saying it out loud. No one ever said life was supposed to be easy. Everyone is stronger than they think, they just believe in yourself and you will do it and when you do you will become even stronger.