a lot of married people I see is that mereka lebih baik ke teman daripada ke pasangan. i guess kebaikan pasangan yang harusnya jadi sesuatu yang disyukuri, malah sesuatu yang harus diekspektasikan. anyway... hm... yeah it's sucks. about friends, it just sucks. i love talking and meeting with people, but befriending them? I only have 3 person so far that checked my list about good enough friend. but we have separated way for now, because I also valued independence♥️
anyway, friends sucks and a lot of people are glamorizing the need of having friends. they do not know the cheat code in life. semua teman akan menjadi musuh, kecuali orang yang bertakwa. so ya, orang bertakwa satu sama lain akan selamat karena mereka berteman for the sake of Allah (hopefully, kita husnudzan saja). sisanya, akan berantakan. baik di dunia maupun di akhirat.